Forward Movement

It has now been two years since I have been immersed in the safe, enclosed, gratifying, and limitless neighborhood of Brunswick Maine. There, I went to college, a place that pushed my capabilities in every way, yet also suppressed my openness to what the world could offer. At college, I was protected by the Bowdoin bubble, a realization of bliss and negligence towards adulthood. I am thankful for the meals, knowledge, and close proximity to friends, that were so easily given to me while at school. Perhaps such a paradise is necessary to then realize the lack of structure that is thrust towards you once you exit the college grounds.

The flexibility of the future is daunting but breathtaking. It can also be dangerous but secure. I hope that my life at this point and moving forward is all but perfect. I wish for the roller coaster of emotions, opportunities and dreams. This immense feeling of uncertainty is a gift to mold a life of endless opportunities. Throughout my wild goose chase to figure out my career or perhaps a career-less future, I have had one main factor ground me. My friends from college have helped me stabilize the ebb and flow of uncertainty. It is reassuring knowing that each and everyone of them are having similar experiences that embody the discouraging and exciting flow of adulthood. We are all progressing towards experiences, not necessarily careers, but opportunities that allow us to love and dislike what we learn. Not one of us is alone through this insane journey.

Recently I was able to reconnect with my friends over St. Patrick’s weekend. The weekend was a reminder of support and a reminder of our adolescent excitement. With them, I was able to embrace reality and get the extra push toward my future. The weekend also emphasized the importance of regular reunions with college friends. We reminisced, laughed, and joked around. We also shared new life updates, updates that we took for granted in college with the incessant flow of support. Most importantly, this weekend indicated the unconditional and unique friendship that we have. Undoubtedly a valuable one.

To those of you who are engulfed by the intimidating flow of post college work life, take a breather and reunite with friends. Don’t be afraid to take a you day, to take a sick day, or to take several days off of work to meet with old friends- to be reminded of what else life can offer.

Thank you for reading this post:)

Peace and love always,

Feli