Recently, I was able to visit my twin sister in Denver, a unique city that allowed her to thrive and find her niche. This was the first time I was an outsider in her community and it was alluring. For 21 years, Heather and I have been each others rocks, each others mirrors, and each others dependencies. For 21 years, we shared a bedroom, knew each others deepest secrets, and understood each others inner passions and torments. I was able to see our relationship grow as kids at home in Hong Kong, and then further evolve as adults in college. Growing up, we were very much alike, we had similar…